You can not heal in the presence
of someone who is unsafe to you.
I am not sure why it took me so long to have this “Aha” moment. But, I realize, as I look to my own healing, how often I have engaged in this attempt at healing in the presence of someone who has shown themselves to be unsafe to me.
I think there has been a glitch in my processing- believing if I could heal with someone who has shown themselves to be hurtful or damaging to me than I would be “successful”.
I am now listening to my own words and removing attempts of healing away from those who have shown themselves to be unsafe.
If I am to heal, it will be when I engage in this act in the presence of SAFE and SUPPORTIVE people- that is how one learns to truly heal 🙂